Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?

A very insightful book that makes sense of the male thinking and
enlightens you into understanding their behavior. A light and easygoing
book which is hard to put down.

I've read many dating books, the last being How To Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve and wanted to find others that could give me a different perspective. This one certaily did. It's a bit dryer than the Romy Miller book, but it was very helpful in all aspects. I say, keep your eyes and mind open. This book proves that point.

I tried to read through the whole book- really, I did- but it felt like I was continually getting a shot to the stomach just for being a woman. I asked my fiance to take a look at this book. He laughed and said he had met guys like this in college; really smart guys who had trouble getting a date and who blamed it on the women. (And yes, he IS a jock- he also studies Bio Technology. *grin*...) He suggested I throw it out, but I'm going to take the book next to a female therapist (Dr. of Psychology) I know, and see what she says.

Especially if you are like me- the professional "Commitmentphobe Trainer" you know, the guy says he doesn't want to ever get married, breaks up with you, marries next girl he dates, happily every after- for him anyway.

After a painful break-up I was left with many questions. And this book has answered them all. Things I/he said/done that puzzeled me, have now found meaning and understanding. I might even say I was clueless about men until I read this book. I understand now that what I thought was a good relationship was anything but, thanks to this book. The first part (women men leave) gave me a lot of insight into my behavior and his reaction to that. I found myself in some greater or lesser extent in each portrait of common women behavior that can end a relationship.The authors explain in structured and simple way what men want from relationships and how they behave. Another helpful book that I highly recommend is How to Snag a Guy and Keep Him Hooked: 99 Ways to Make Him Ache for You If you want to spare yourself a lot of heartbreaks in the future read both books!